When you work a 9-5 job who has the time, energy or budget to do that. The problem is that girls watch these shows and take it as fact. The bar is set pretty high and these girls don't want to be disappointed.
I need help - specifically your advice and input. I've sourced a bunch of places here in New York City for dates but I need the skinny about them. Which would be good for a first date and which would be inappropriate? Likewise if I was connecting with a girl and wanted to go something special for a 5th-6th date which would be the place to go do that wouldn't be worthwhile for a first date? There is so much to consider and factor in?
What have your experiences been like at these places? I don't mind spending money but are any of these places unjustifiably expensive? I hate going to places that trade on their reputation and charge you an arm and a leg but then don't result in a good time.
Weekend dates are a step up from dates during the week. What do I need to be aware of when it comes to the differentiation here?
Any females there, what have you found you like and don't like when it comes to dating. Please enlighten me with your wisdom!
Beach day at Coney Island
I can't imagine a more relaxing and fun date to spend with the girl of your dreams. Every girl loves the beach and would not refuse an opportunity towork on her tan or hang out in the ocean.
Bronx Zoo
For all the animal lovers out there, the zoo is a fun activity that can melt a girls heart. Make sure you check out the koala and panda exhibits to really bring out your sensitive side.
Live Band at Cafe Wha?
Central Park Bike Tour
If your girl is athletic and enjoys the outdoors then this can be the perfect date for you. Not only is it cheap date but it is a great way to enjoy the beauty of the park while spending time outside.
Horse Carriage Ride
This is a great idea to make a girl feel like she is a princess in a fairy tale. This is definitely a great way to show your girl what she really means to you.
Chelsea Market
The Chelsea Market makes for a nice casual date where you can choose coffee, food and dessert from some of the best places in the city. After chomping down on some delicious desserts, you can find a marketplace where artists sell their unique hand-crafted home goods or artwork.
Chinatown
Explore the beauty of Chinatown together where you can find exotic foods or cheap knock off items. This is a great place to shop or even get an inexpensive massage!
Comedy Night at Eastville Comedy Club
This is a great way to test out your girl's sense of humor. It's always a plus when you and your girlfriend can laugh at the same things and what a better way to spend your evening than constant laughter.
Carnival day at Coney Island
Driving Range at Chelsea Piers
This is a great date idea because it is a fun outdoors activity that does not require you to be super athletic to be able to participate. It is always better if your girlfriend is clueless in the golfing field because then you get help her hold the club out in an intimate way.
Firing Guns at West Side Rifle and Pistol Range
If your girl is hardcore and not afraid of adventure, a pistol range might be a great way to explore her fierce side. It is also a bonus if your girlfriend needs some help holding a gun. Just make sure not to piss off your girl on this date!
Gelato making class at Mia Chef Gelateria
For anyone with a sweet tooth, Mia Chef Gelateria can be the perfect date. Instead of the typical ice cream date idea, this brings it to the next level by allowing you to make and choose your own gelato flavor from the start. If you like the recipe, you can even learn to make it at your own home whenever you want.
Manhattan Scenic Helicopter tour
If you have money to spend, then you can seriously impress a girl with a helicopter ride. It's not often that you get to see the city of Manhattan from a bird's eye view
Kayaking in the Hudson River
This is can be a romantic date and a chance to enjoy the outdoors. The best part is that it is very inexpensive and tons of fun. Enjoy the beautiful skyline of New York City while chatting it up with your girlfriend.
Mast Brothers Chocolate
What better way to get to a women's heart than through chocolate.This extravagant chocolate factory allows you to discover the chocolate making process while sampling all of the varieties along the way. Each chocolate is hand-made and wrapped to perfection.
Metropolitan Museum of Art
If you have a taste for art than the Metropolitan Museum can work for you. Even if you are not the artsy type, any girl can appreciate a guy who is willing to step outside of his comfort zone and enjoy beautiful artwork.
New York TV & Movie Sites Tour
If you are a movie buff then get the chance to learn more about the behind the scenes information. You can get to find out where all of your favorite celebs acted on film and take pictures!
Painting Workshop at Painting Lounge
This is a unique date opportunity to create a piece of artwork. Show off to your girl how artsy you can actually be or let her express her talents with paint. Picnic
Impress your girl with a picnic on a nice day and she will be appreciative. This is the time to show your girl how well you can cook. With not a lot of extra cash in your pocket, this is the perfect date to show someone you care.
Rooftop Films
This is a great way to enjoy the beautiful outdoors while watching a film of your choice. In addition to the classic movie date, Rooftop Films actually presents live music to open up the film and an after party.
Sketchbooks at Brooklyn Art Library
This is a unique date that lets you bring out your creative side while making lasting memories. The shelves are aligned with books where you have the opportunity to fill the pages with anything you want whether it is drawings, poems, stories or quotes. You can then create a custom library card together and explore all of the previous creations.
Cruise on the Staten Island Ferry
What can be more romantic than a cruise on the Staten Island Ferry. This is a great way to show your girl how much you really care about her.
White Water Rafting
This is a great date idea for anyone looking for an adventure. It is different from the normal dinner and movies and perfect for a hot summer day.
Wine tasting at Vino Versity
Wine tasting makes for a nice relaxing evening and a chance to loosen up while staying classy. Every girl can enjoy a nice glass of wine and this is a great way to discover what your girlfriend's favorite type of wine is.
